Friendship: The one thing thats considered a fine line.

I feel the world to be a much more different place when it comes to friends and family. When we are born, the people come and go randomly. We only recognize things when we are of age to do so and at most points told so. Friendship in Ohio for me was seeing the neighbor kids and heading over there to play and then there was some that you just didnt mess with because you had that innocent vibe telling you to be curious, but to stay away. When i moved to Missouri, Friendships meant that you are now the aunts and uncles of your close friend's kids. In Ohio, thats not tolerated simply because no one really fully trusted the other and plus its not like you see them everyday because the cities are bigger and much more complicated to drive to rather than driving down the street to a buddies house just for kicks like you can in Missouri, well the smaller cities anyways.



Our video is our first one and though we were both prepared and yet not prepared due to alot of our personal history when it comes to friendship, we do attempt to share the fact that many people in the world are hungry for attention, hungry for the knowledge of what other people think of another person and acceptance in all its glory. I believe in Arrogance simply because many people use that emotion or practice of sorts everyday. I am arrogant when it comes to some people and it just merely avoid them, of course its a personal choice, but when it comes to people you have known for years is it really that serious to drop a friend because of a small problem? Or how about a boyfriend/girlfriend? What if you are told to do it by another person who is not your family? Hell what if it is your family? Friendship nowadays is a fine line simply because people take it much more seriously than that of their own family.



Myself and Kim speak about personal feelings towards friends, whether current or past simply because its the one thing that kicks us in the chest when people tend to disappear and we dont know why. Once always being asked to come down and then soon learning that we are completely expendable. We have many mutual friends and in some cases we have been casted out for unknown reasons. Whats the point of being friends with someone only to screw them? If its for material things, arent you able to buy it or simply ask for it later? Or is it sexual? I admit i wouldnt mind befriending some people simply to sit and check them out, but doesnt that get boring after a while? Eventually youll get casted out yourself because you are not in that person's league or perhaps you are not doing anything for them... Hell maybe its because you are not a risk taker and wont do what he/she says or does for fun. What and why is the point of being around someone that doesnt do anything for you or thats even in your league? Thats the reasons behind cliques right?



I know this blog would seem very incoherant, but in a sense it is. Our videos are soon to provide the world a good service i think and hopefully itll make many people at least think of what they should do in a situation where they sit and wonder their place in their friend's world. Do you really want to continue to be used? Do you see a pattern of when your friend calls or comes around? Are you holding that person back? What if its you that gets the raw end of the deal? Reason why i say this, is that the world Karma always comes up whether its in revenge, excuses, or even plain life. Karma is a bitch literally and she is mean. You try to be the good friend and something from your past comes to haunt you, you are the bad friend and something happens that haunts you... basically the famous word is Drama. You are damned if you do and damned if you dont, but its always good to have the few close friends around you to pick up the pieces when you are down... Close friends are hard to find, even childhood friends are not strong enough and sadly i learned that the hardway.

Please check out our videos and as always please post anything you would like to say, this is Speaking Out and we want you to Speak Out.